It can be unfashionable and oh so very uncool to fall in love if you are a strong, intelligent, ass-kicking woman. But the reality is that no one can exist in an emotional vacuum. Independent and capable people still have emotions, and occasionally they even follow them.
As an officer on the Nebuchadnezzar, Trinity (Carrie-Anne Moss) is in the business of freeing the minds of those deemed ready to accept the truth about The Matrix. One such person who she helps ‘free’ is Thomas ‘Neo’ Anderson (Keanu Reeves), someone with which she feels an immediate bond. As it turns out Trinity was told by The Oracle that she would fall in love with a man who would be ‘The One’, a person with amazing powers. She keeps this information to herself, but with her feelings for Neo growing, she allows herself to wonder.
However, feelings as powerful as love and thoughts of soulmates cannot be kept silent for long. A critical point follows a betrayal by one of their crewmates which results in Trinity barely escaping The Matrix and leaves Neo locked in battle with Agent Smith. A battle which ends in Neo’s death. ‘Watching’ this unfold from outside The Matrix, Trinity refuses to accept he has gone and holds to her trust in what The Oracle has told her. She kisses Neo’s lifeless body and tells him that he must be The One because she loves him, and so he must get up and fight. Defying belief, Neo comes back to life, kills Smith and with that finally steps into the role of The One. Without Trinity’s connection to Neo, her refusal to accept his death, and her transference of emotional energy and strength to him, Neo would not have been able to complete this transformation and fulfil his prophecy.
Time passes and the strength of the connection between Trinity and Neo is now openly displayed. With guidance from The Oracle, Neo and the team set out to rescue The Keymaker from his imprisonment by the luxuriously rich and powerful The Merovingian. Unable to broker a satisfactory deal with The Merovingian, help comes from an unexpected corner. Persephone, The Merovingian’s wife offers The Keymaker up on one condition. All she asks is for one kiss from Neo so that she can sample the love between Neo and Trinity. As could be expected from any red-blooded woman in love with the man in question, Trinity reacts rather negatively to this arrangement and takes immediate and decisive action. Pointing her gun at Persephone she asks, ‘Why don’t you sample this instead?’
Given the importance of the trade deal at stake, the terms are agreed much to Trinity’s displeasure. Persephone takes her kiss, but she is not satisfied. She is not just interested in the physical sensation of a kiss, she wants to be able to feel the emotion of the kiss; she wants to experience love. Unfortunately then a second kiss is required, and Neo has to summon the intensity of feeling which he shares with Trinity to meet Persephone’s needs. Filled with love, longing and passion, this is a kiss that finally satisfies Persephone. In any case, with Trinity growing more irritated by the second, it is unlikely whether she would have been given another chance to ’sample’ further.
In the world of The Matrix though things are never far from taking a dramatic turn. Following a particularly gruelling battle between Neo and several Sentinels, Neo is left unconscious and in the care of Trinity. After discovering that The Merovingian is holding Neo’s mind prisoner, Trinity and Morpheus plan an attack on The Merovingian’s club. While getting inside the club proves to be relatively easy, they are soon captured and brought to see The Merovingian, who of course knows why they are there. After The Merovingian elaborately explains the details of the terms under which he will agree to Neo’s release, Trinity quickly loses patience. Driven by something more than just frustration at wasted time, in her own inimitable style she simply says, ‘I don’t have time for this shit’. With that a fight ensues and she convincingly negotiates the terms of Neo’s release by trapping The Merovingian at gunpoint.

After successfully returning Neo’s mind to his body, Trinity accompanies Neo to the Machine City on his mission to stop the war. While on their journey, Neo is forced into battle with an incredibly powerful opponent whose body is being controlled by an Agent Smith clone. While ultimately winning the fight, through the course of their duel Neo is blinded. With his sense of sight now gone, Neo depends on his other senses to guide his path, and of course is reliant on Trinity to be his eyes and provide the support he needs to continue.
Unfortunately just as they make it past the Machine City’s defences, Trinity is fatally wounded. With a kiss she says goodbye to Neo for the last time. Neo’s last personal human connection has been severed, and so he is now able to focus his mind entirely on the fulfilment of his prophecy. Even in death, Trinity provides Neo with the motivation, strength and power which he must channel to face this, his most important of tasks.
The course of love is never smooth, never easy and always challenging. Trinity demonstrates that the power and strength to be gained and to be given through the sharing of love, does not have to compromise a person’s spirit or impact on their fighting prowess. Without experiencing this love, Trinity’s life path would have been somewhat incomplete and Neo’s prophetical journey could never have been embarked upon.
Tracey is the author of Quiet Paws